So hello there, again.
I woke up today and checked my phone, as usually. And apparently my mind triggered my fingers to tap on the twitter icon and scroll over my timeline. Then I saw one friend of mine was on timeline. One thing lead to another, I accidentally stalked him. However, the thing that intrigues me is his 'bio' description. He mention that he only follows anyone who covers their awrah.
....hold up.
before I transform myself into a legal advisor, I'd like to declare that this is not something to humiliate others, this is for every one's sake. Helping each other for things they might not realize. So we're good?
Okay, maybe you didn't know or not aware of, but its wrong to write it in that way. Even if you're message is to influence your friends to cover their awrah but don't you think your approach is too strident ?
To say that gives an interpretation or an idea that presumably, to you, those who doesn't cover their awrah is a disgrace. That is fallacy my friend and ferociously blatant. If you want to see your friends change for the better, you should encourage them, talk them out of the situation, convince them. Because, shutting people down will only distant the gap there is between two parties and only enlarge the void. What you should do is to fill the spaces to draw them towards you. Perhaps, you should be more approachable or likable, so that you attitude will evoke their mind to actually conjure for your help. You never know.
I know I'm no one to even say this but hey I'm here to help. Because I know your intention is good, but its not done in the correct 'orientation' . I guess.
and.
don't tell the whole world of what you've done good and take pride, because that falls under being boastful, and in Islam, to boast means being a hypocrite. Just sayin.
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